What Is your opnion about intimate relationships and comunications??

1.The qualities that help people develop intimate relationships


2. Different types of love relationsships ans stages they often go through.


3. Common challenges of forming and mainting intimate relationships


4. elements of healthy and productive communications 5.characteristics of successful families and some potential problems


6. joys and chalenges of being a parentWhat Is your opnion about intimate relationships and comunications??
Wow, you are in for some heavy reading with question!!!


Here goes:





1. Love of Self, admiration of diversities, considerate co-existance ethics, ability to compromise, compassion, forgiveness, adherence to rite of privacy, patience, tolerance, understanding...support of another's growing %26amp; being, while growing in Self.





2. The 'Crush'--love in fantasy form...hardly ever pans out.


'Puppy' Love--usually a first experience of going beyond friendship...deep, confusing, frustrating...provides opportunity for exploration of Self/another more intimately.


'True' Love--deepest bonding of human forces...that all-encompassing, give your life for, thru thick %26amp; thin, attraction/attachment...THE partnership of a lifetime.


Love Energy--that eyes-meet-across-the-room %26amp; bang! You both connect! Provides that jump out of bed in the morning, can't get him/her off the mind, that glow %26amp; ear to ear grin, can't wait to see again, feeling. Awesome experience, starts in a whirlwind and winds down from there...sometimes leads to the 'True' Love, sometimes not--depends on expectations.


Love of Lust--The totally physical attraction of consenting adults who have no commits in mind, love sex %26amp; no-holds barred exploration of that...sometimes becomes a tight friendship (friends w/benefits, so to speak), that comes %26amp; goes throughout life...sometimes only one-nighters.


Parental Love--Supposed to be the unconditional committment to the responsibility taken on by the bearer(s) to allow another entity the opportunity to experience a lifetime...this entails affording that entity the time, freedom, lessons of social stealth, the academic/life skills knowledge, and wisdoms of virtues to do so as healthfully as possible. Not always the case, but is the grander ideal.


Unconditional Love--The pure energy force that engulfs all of life...not a feeling, but an essence of that which we truly are. It is the power of freedom ';to be, or not to be'; of every moment of existance...all things equal on the plane, all things entitled to become of their free-will choices, all things entitled to the consequences of those choices. The grandest Love of All !!!





3. Greatest challenge of any relationship--acquaintance thru any of the above--Would continuance/deepening of such be of personal benefit??? You, yourself, have to choose, at every stage %26amp; moment of such, who %26amp; what you are, within it %26amp; because of it...and does that beingness reflect YOUR grandest vision of Self for the lifetime you came into.





4. Self Control--one should be able to keep brain in gear before mouth...ears always open, mouth only when necessary. This is where the virtues of wisdom shine, compromise excels, growth %26amp; deepness abound, connects strengthen. Ability to communicate encompasses the physical %26amp; the mental of all relationshipping.





5. Considering 'success' as all involved being free ';to be'; as they are, in an understanding conglomeration of humans being...See Numero Uno. There are no 'problems', only 'solutions' in anything ';successful';.





6. Going thru all of the above with every individual that passes from loin to womb %26amp; into hands!!! Parenting is an experience of it's own, while all are experiencing of themselves in process...an amazing adenture, indeed!!! If you don't already possess many of the #1 virtues, parenting provides the greatest opportunity to acquire %26amp; hone them!!! lol:) Challenges of not having enough arms, actual eyes in back of the head, ESP skills, a toteable IV of Adrenaline, kids not having 'off' switches, nor born with ';silver spoons';, and still ';be'; of Self, are just a few. Dealing with neighbors, school systems, %26amp; the mass conscious concept of 'normal' are a few more...and the list can go on %26amp; on!!! (lol:) And the joys of such are priceless experiences %26amp; memories, %26amp; hope/witness to the future of mankind.





Good Journey...now, I need a nap!!! lol:)