When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?

lots of people are saying don't ask and its none of your business etc..


but personally i think that if you're really serious about them and are thinking of having a future with them you SHOULD talk about it. it will increase your intimacy and the honesty and trust in the relationship.


I don't know when you should do it... (not too near the beginning though- i did that by accident whilst drunk and i just didnt want to know... it made it harder to build up the initial trust and self confidence within the relationship)


just do it when it feels right..


Don't judge someone on their past though! people change etc.


hope it helps a bit!?When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?
Um, you never ask someone that! You only have the STD talk and that should happen BEFORE you have sex. Past is none of YOUR or THEIR business.





Some relationships are RUINED after that question is asked. DON'T ASK IT, IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?
in my opinion...NEVER have this conversation...NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM IT...why the hell would you want to know...you dont want to hear about someone you love hooking up with other people...just lay off it, trust
Hummm.... I really don't see the importance of asking someone this question.. it's water under the bridge.. so they say...