Are Gay relationships different from those that typically are between women and men?

I am not being critical,just curious. Over the years it seems from appearances only, that those individuals who prefer the same sex are content. It is merely observation only, however men who prefer the same sex seem to be more ';friendly'; with everyone whereas women who prefer the same sex appear to be more friendly with those of the female sex. I have seen instances where this is not necessarily valid however overall it appears to be this way. Perhaps I am limited on my observation of this however at this point I have this opinion-is it an appropriate one?Are Gay relationships different from those that typically are between women and men?
I woulnt say that gay relationships are any dofferent it only becomes different when ppl make it about sex ( which btw it isnt) i prefere the same sex and i would say im content, i have freinds male and female i do get on with women better, but my gf on the other hand gets on with men better than women , i dont think that your opinion is inappropraite , after al your opinion is yours and yours alone .Are Gay relationships different from those that typically are between women and men?
not really i mean were doing the same things in everyway
Nope!


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Friendly? I'm friendly with everyone. If you mean sexual - as opposed to friendly -- and are using it as a euphemism -- then no, I've never had any sexual interest in females.





Beyond that comment I have no idea what you are asking, so answering it is beyond me. I'm sorry.





Kind regards,





Reyn


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for me its about the same as a hetrosexual relationship....we argue..we have debts...we laugh together...we plan for the future...we are faithful...we watch TV together...same as you guys do....its just different in the bedroom department.
Really, there's no difference. Most of the relationship questions that come up in the LGBT section could just as well be asked in the Singles and Dating section.
i think it has to do with stereo types, not saying ur doing it on purpose but they are forced on us. if you think about how stereo types are some how inbeded into us even if you know for a fact that they are not true.
saying that lesbians don't like the male sex is stereotypical....however, i do know what your talking about... I have many lesbian friends that do not like males at all...however, i have an equal amount that doens't mind them at all...it really just depends on the person. My ex had a big problem with me being bisexual because she hated men... so its just personal preference
They are different because same-sex couples understand each other more because they are of the same gender. So for example if a girl is crying another girl would know how to comfort her.

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Is online relationships / affairs healthy? What do you think?

In my view, it is not. Human should interact, fall in love and do the courting naturally. If it's just getting a contact number from chat rooms, i feel that it's still okay...cause then, it's kinda like giving out your business card virtually. But to go on and on with online relationships or affairs i do not think it's healthy. Human should be humans, and not letting their minds and hearts be controlled by computers or some figure from the internet. What do you think?Is online relationships / affairs healthy? What do you think?
Anything in this world can be unhealthy. Anything. Face to face relationships can become just as ';unreal'; and ';unhealthy'; as a virtual one. It is truly all in how you look at it. 100% your attitude and how you handle relationships. I now know over 10 couples who started an ';online'; relationship and are married or seriously dating and are incredibly happy. One of them moved from Italy to be with her love. She met him HERE in Answers ... they're getting married in October.





Of course you run risks. That's inherent in this type of situation. People can lie and live a false reality ... but can't they do that in real life as well? How many times have you heard about the guy who has a wife in one state ... and a long time girlfriend in another? Happens all the time. More than anything it is about THE person - not the mechanism.





There are things you can do to protect yourself online. Like use a cam so you can see the person right off and at least know they are who they are in there photos and description. It's much easier to get a feel for someone you can ';see'; and ';talk'; to. You can also plan on meeting right away (very safely of course) so you can find out if you ';click';. I would never carry on a lengthy online relationship and not meet the person relatively quickly because then all these feelings are invested and you may not end up ';meshing'; in person. This also happens all the time.





There are also many positive sides to online dating. It brings people together from all over the world. You never know who your soul mate is going to be ... or who your next really good friend may be. I have a guy friend ... met him online ... he's in Canada ... it started out romantic, but we realized we make much better friends after meeting. So we have been friends for almost 5 years now and are so close! I wouldn't trade that for the world. If I had shut out the notion of ';online relationships'; I'd be missing this amazing person in my life.





You can never tell who your soul mate is going to be. I don't think you should ever shut out possible pathways to that person. You just have to be mature and smart about it. It is possible ... I've seen it time and time again in online relationships. In the busy world we live I think this is going to be the more common dating ritual as time goes on. A computer cannot possibly control your mind or heart ... that is all your choice. The computer again ... is just a mechanism. There are bad people everywhere ... it has nothing to with the ';computer'; itself. Keep your mind and heart open to all possibilities, but play it safe. In the end it's up to you ... a human behind a computer is still a human. You never know which human in this world is going to be the love of your life ... don't shut him out for fear of the unknown. Find a way to make it ';known'; ... and then follow your heart.





Peace ... to you.





~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Is online relationships / affairs healthy? What do you think?
Awe thanks sweetie. And it was quite sweet of ';Vick'; to conquer. have a wonderful week ... and hang in there! =)

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Its not like They r healthy but its like getting stupid enough having an affair with a person in another part of the world.


Its O.K. to make a loyal friend to whom you can trust upon and open ur heart and make yourself feel lighter!
To each it's own.





We are not in a position to judge how people live their lives. If one chooses to carry on with an online relationship, so long as it is not hurting anyone where is the problem?





The problem is when people hide behind computers and pretend to be anything but who they really are. Then the question is not about intimacy and love--rather why are you hiding behind a computer and pretending to be someone you are not? What is really going on?
Ditto what Christee said.





Well put!
I completely agree with you. I often think that if you have an ';online relationship'; in the romantic sense, it turns more into an affair with an idea, which we is hard enough to deal with in real life. We just call it ';infatuation.'; So yes, we should keep it face to face. However, I find it interesting that you're posting this question on an internet forum...how bout giving me a call sometime???
Totally agree it is not healthy. Online personalities do not reflect the true person.
You know I am glad you asked this question.





The Internet, or as I like to call it, the iNet is a miracle and marvel of our modern age.





It has introduced everyone on our planet today to the possibility of VR (a.k.a. Virtual Reality) and along with what our friends in the field of quantum physics are discovering, the possibility that nothing is real! Or at least as ';material or physical'; as we once thought.





Isn't ';enlightenment'; and ';awakening'; just peachy?





And yes, we will soon take another grand leap into another layer of VR! Do you know about Atlas? http://atlas.ch/





God, oh God! I love this stuff.





I can never be sure about anything!





It lets my imagination run or fly free!








And everyone today is telling me I can create my own reality!





Ha! If I could do that, really do that, don't you just imagine this world, this universe would be a far, far different place?
totally agree, its creepy because you really have way of know whats true about the other person.

Do you think that online or long distance relationships are sincere and last?

just wondering


please answer both questions.Do you think that online or long distance relationships are sincere and last?
It all depends on how serious you are and how much work you are willing to put into the relationship. I met my fiancee on line 2 1/2 yrs ago. Do you think that online or long distance relationships are sincere and last?
Depends on the circumstances. I think long distance relationships can work, as long as the distance is only for a short space of time and you are both clear about the future and what you want. Personally I do not think internet dating is a good idea, although it has to be said I have been hearing more and more success stories of internet love, but its not for me.
I'd say that it doesn't matter. What matters is the maturity/perseverance/patience/love and so on to each relationship that makes it sincere and lasting.





I don't necessarily recommend online relationships unless you know this person, however, and I mean that you've met face to face and so on.
Why not? Online relationship is great. My wife is met through an online dating site called http://www.wealthychats.com , we experienced the online relationships for months, then we found we are the righ one for each other, so, we are happily married now.
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Have you/Do you feel like everyone dislikes you or that you dont have any true relationships?

Also...Do you think this is a common feeling that atleast we all feel once in a while?








Me: Ive been feeling this way lately, questioning maybe theres something wrong with me, maybe thats why I feel my relationships just suck, in general. Then i think this is a normal feeling, since humans are always judging ourselves and striving for something more than we already have.Have you/Do you feel like everyone dislikes you or that you dont have any true relationships?
I actually like myself quite a lot. I realized a long time ago that I am the person I am going to have to spend the most time with in my life. If I don't like myself, I'd better do something about it quick. Why would I ever... EVER want to spend time with someone I don't like? Why?





I never feel that everyone dislikes me or that I don;t have any true relationships. I know I have a few true relationships, and I know that I have a lot of relationships that are based on people wanting to use me. I'm well aware of my surroundings. I know I am not a popular person. I do not try to be popular in the least. Life is to short to waste time on trying to be popular. That is the manipulation of others, and it is all about putting up a false front.





I tell it like it is. I call 'em like I see 'em. I tell the truth. If someone calls me rude, that's fine. They are entitled to their opinion, and they are entitled to be wrong. Sometimes they aren't wrong, and I will be rude AND honest at the same time. Sugar coating is a waste of time. You know that old saying ';You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar?'; Have you ever tested that saying? Guess what... flies are actually more attracted to the vinegar.





The first person you have to get comfortable with is yourself. No one else matters. No one. Once you are comfortable in your own skin, and you don;t second guess your personality anymore (like you are now), you start to realize who your true friends are... and you make better friends. Because people become the friend of the person they see... and that is the person YOU see. They become comfortable with you, because YOU re comfortable with you.





You will never be friends with everyone. So don't even try. Be friends with yourself. Others will follow.Have you/Do you feel like everyone dislikes you or that you dont have any true relationships?
Yes...I have been feeling that way lately...I have a crush on a guy at the moment and he knows that I like him...I try communicating with him but I feel that he hates me or something..I feel totally rejected. I do think that this is feeling we get once in a while. God made you the way you are for a purpose...and im sure He has created someone that loves you for who you are.


Well, there you go! I hope that'll help. God bless!
I think there are time regardless of age that we all feel the way you are explaining. Whether we are 4 or 80, I think we all have times where we are feeling insecure about something.





I think what is more important is that we are not so hard on ourselves and allow ourselves to remain in that more of thinking for long!
You need to have more confidence on yourself. Sure, I feel like that sometimes, once you broke up with a relationship and you usually feel no one likes you. But do not let anyone take away your self-esteem.
I HAVE TO SAY LATLY MY BF I THINK IS TRYIN 2 BRAKE UP W/ ME AND IM SCARED ITS GONNA HAPPEN AND ALL MY TRUE FRIENDS HATE ME LATLY BECAUSE IM DATIN HIM AND IVE BEEN SO DEPRESSED LATLY...IM KINDA SCARED
Sometimes :(
sometimes

What is the difference between inverse and direct relationships in the gas laws?

generally, for any laws in physics, when you say inverse relationship, as one increases, the other decreases. direct relationship means as one increases/decreases, the other also increases/decreases.

What do you guys think about Doctor-Patient Relationships? Good or Bad?

I just want to get your opinions cos I think its bad and during a converstaion with a friend whos is a medical student, she said its a good thing as long as it doesn't intefere with the Doctor's work. How true can that be?What do you guys think about Doctor-Patient Relationships? Good or Bad?
Are you saying ';Doctor-Patient'; relationship as in DATING? Because thats probably not what the medical student means. Doctor-Patient relationship refers to the interaction of physicians and patients on a professional basis.





Physicians aren't supposed to date their patients, since that violates the ';doctor-patient'; relationship.What do you guys think about Doctor-Patient Relationships? Good or Bad?
I was told a long time ago ';Don't **** (defecate) where you eat';.





If you're talking about sex between Dr. and Patient is not advisable and unprofessional.
As long as it's professional it's a good thing.





If it's a personal relationship, it depends. If the patient is still under treatment, i'd say it's not good. When it's outside practice and won't interfere with treatment, i think it's okay.





I personally prefer not to get too personal with my patients.

Can relationships really work when the woman is the bread winner?

I am dating a guy that I adore. Due to some physical problems, he is limited to the work he can do. I make really good money and have a lot of time in on my job. He gets frustrated sometimes because of this situation. However, I am willing to be patient and I do not mind being the bread winner. He is a great cook, a great house keeper and takes care of business.... all the things I hate. How can I make him more at ease about our living situation.Can relationships really work when the woman is the bread winner?
Yes this kind of relationship can work. Though he is being a typical guy.





You could try to praise him for all the stuff he does....but not mussy girl praise...make it more guy praise(like the kind you'd get a work).





You could step back and give him a bit more power to fill the vacuum he feels.





You could always keep yourself in check and not say stuff like your the bread winner....to him and others.Can relationships really work when the woman is the bread winner?
Sounds like you have a good relationship.

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Why am I still confused at 39 about relationships?

FOR GROWN FOLKS ONLY PLEASE. at my age you would think that I would know what I want by now but why is it that when I get a good girl that wants to fall in love and have a real relationship I want to just screw around and not be serious, then when I find a girl that just wants to screw around I want a nice girl and a relationship. THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY.Why am I still confused at 39 about relationships?
you just have not found the right type of person. i think you want to have someone that wants to be in a serious relationship, because you want to have someone to grow old with, although at the same time you want someone that is crazy and out outgoing. the type of women that tend to fit that catagory ill say are women on their 25. at that age some women are jus gettin out of college looking for someone to have a relationship with, yet they are still into partying.

When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?

lots of people are saying don't ask and its none of your business etc..


but personally i think that if you're really serious about them and are thinking of having a future with them you SHOULD talk about it. it will increase your intimacy and the honesty and trust in the relationship.


I don't know when you should do it... (not too near the beginning though- i did that by accident whilst drunk and i just didnt want to know... it made it harder to build up the initial trust and self confidence within the relationship)


just do it when it feels right..


Don't judge someone on their past though! people change etc.


hope it helps a bit!?When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?
Um, you never ask someone that! You only have the STD talk and that should happen BEFORE you have sex. Past is none of YOUR or THEIR business.





Some relationships are RUINED after that question is asked. DON'T ASK IT, IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?
in my opinion...NEVER have this conversation...NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM IT...why the hell would you want to know...you dont want to hear about someone you love hooking up with other people...just lay off it, trust
Hummm.... I really don't see the importance of asking someone this question.. it's water under the bridge.. so they say...

How can I stop from letting my previous relationships get in the way of the one I am in now?

It seems that every girl that I have been with has lied, cheated or just done me wrong in some way. It is so hard for me to trust now that it makes me sick. I do not know how to turn off that switch that not every girl is the same. I am with a real good girl now that I think I can trust and she means the world to me. I do not know how to stop thinking that she is going to be the same. I do not want to mess this up with us..Please help!!How can I stop from letting my previous relationships get in the way of the one I am in now?
aww.. i have the same with you.. my boyfriend right now is like that. he thinks that all girls are the same. but you know thats not true. and i know that i will never cheat on him or lie. cause i know that he fears it that way. but then.. i know he is frustrated like you, who is afraid to be cheated on.. its best that you forget everything that has happened in your past and stay happy with your girl.. forget all your insecurities cause you know the girl youre into is good and she loves you.. i know its hard. but you have to move on and open up your self to new opportunities. its best to love like you've never been hurt cause if you keep on thinking that way, you will never know what you've been missing and you will never be happy. just try to be more patient cause that usually happens.. just move on.. and everything will be fine. :)thats good for you..





goodluck..^^How can I stop from letting my previous relationships get in the way of the one I am in now?
Go talk to a professional about your fears, past relationship habits are one of the hardest things to get over on your own. You could also explain to the girl that you've had a rough time in the past and you need her to be patient with you if you question something, and that it's not her, it's you and you trying to recover form something. The latter seems to bee working with my boyfriend and I, it's taking time, but I trust him more and more every day because he's showing me there's no reason not to.
hey dud, just be open with her and let her be open back with u in that way you guys cant talk about anything tell her about your past experiences with girls and how they did you wrong so she understand why u can be like this at time. Key word her is that you guys just have to be open with eachother in that way u will gain trust in eachother
maybe you need to stop thinking about your past and the people who hurt you and focus on your future. you need to trust her. don't let you last relationship spoil your happiness. think positive. GOOD LUCK =)
if all your past relationships have been the same (cheating girls), then you are the problem. You probably look for that type of person subconsciously. Look for professional help.

What is your opinion on interracial marriages and relationships?

I have no problem with it at all I actually sort of like it. Just understand what you truly and strongly believe in and make sure you two agree. Relationships are hard and you may not agree on everything just as long as its the things you find most important. I feel other then that why not you might learn something.What is your opinion on interracial marriages and relationships?
if the individuals are happy with each other there should be support. although there may be some family and friends who might not approve. those who don't approve at first may find out in time they are mistaken.What is your opinion on interracial marriages and relationships?
10,000 years ago we were all pretty much one race. We immigrated to the far reaches of the earth and hence evolved into different races.





Now that the four corners of the globe can be reached within 24 hours, we are once again starting to merge as one race. It will take a while but eventually we will all be like we were 10,000 odd years ago.
I have no problem with it nor is it my right to judge on this matter. Opinions are like bellybuttons and everyone has one....each to their own. If a person doesnt like interracial relationships then they should mind their own business and just let others live their own lives.





And yes, its all about the inside..love goes beyong colour or race. Love is not prejudiced either.
I like mine ;)





but cross-culture can be hard, not ';race';. A big factor in cross-culture relationships is the families. Winning them over becomes 100x harder.
I think they are perfectly fine. If two people are happy together, it doesn't matter if one is white and the other is black, or whatever combo.
My marriage is interracial and thus has made a beautiful biracial child. I don't think it matters, sometimes I actually forget that my husband is a different race until I read questions like this. Love is...love.
Absolutely. It has been stated in old times that when two come together, they are one. If you find someone that truly makes you happy, nothing else matters but that. ';True'; happiness. You don't have to find love the same place mom %26amp; dad did or your best friend or even someone you admire. That's their story...';what's yours story'; is the question that needs answering.
They are fine, though usually complicated.
It's awesome, but you have to be mindful of cultural differences. Even in the same country, black and whites (and other races) have different cultures and it could be a big conflict.
I'm not exactly sure. I tell my daughter that as long as the man she marries is a Christian, that is the most important thing. If she meets and falls in love with a black man, or Hispanic man and he shares her faith, then marry him. I believe I'll stand by that if she so chooses to intermarry.
It's about their happiness, just like any other couple and if they can get around their differences than so can the rest of the world.
i am not here to pass judgement we are all of the same we share no differences we are one
There is nothing wrong with it in my opinion. If 2 people really love each other the color of a persons skin shouldn't matter at all.

What is your opinion on interracial marriages and relationships?

I have no problem with it at all I actually sort of like it. Just understand what you truly and strongly believe in and make sure you two agree. Relationships are hard and you may not agree on everything just as long as its the things you find most important. I feel other then that why not you might learn something.What is your opinion on interracial marriages and relationships?
if the individuals are happy with each other there should be support. although there may be some family and friends who might not approve. those who don't approve at first may find out in time they are mistaken.What is your opinion on interracial marriages and relationships?
10,000 years ago we were all pretty much one race. We immigrated to the far reaches of the earth and hence evolved into different races.





Now that the four corners of the globe can be reached within 24 hours, we are once again starting to merge as one race. It will take a while but eventually we will all be like we were 10,000 odd years ago.
I have no problem with it nor is it my right to judge on this matter. Opinions are like bellybuttons and everyone has one....each to their own. If a person doesnt like interracial relationships then they should mind their own business and just let others live their own lives.





And yes, its all about the inside..love goes beyong colour or race. Love is not prejudiced either.
I like mine ;)





but cross-culture can be hard, not ';race';. A big factor in cross-culture relationships is the families. Winning them over becomes 100x harder.
I think they are perfectly fine. If two people are happy together, it doesn't matter if one is white and the other is black, or whatever combo.
My marriage is interracial and thus has made a beautiful biracial child. I don't think it matters, sometimes I actually forget that my husband is a different race until I read questions like this. Love is...love.
Absolutely. It has been stated in old times that when two come together, they are one. If you find someone that truly makes you happy, nothing else matters but that. ';True'; happiness. You don't have to find love the same place mom %26amp; dad did or your best friend or even someone you admire. That's their story...';what's yours story'; is the question that needs answering.
They are fine, though usually complicated.
It's awesome, but you have to be mindful of cultural differences. Even in the same country, black and whites (and other races) have different cultures and it could be a big conflict.
I'm not exactly sure. I tell my daughter that as long as the man she marries is a Christian, that is the most important thing. If she meets and falls in love with a black man, or Hispanic man and he shares her faith, then marry him. I believe I'll stand by that if she so chooses to intermarry.
It's about their happiness, just like any other couple and if they can get around their differences than so can the rest of the world.
i am not here to pass judgement we are all of the same we share no differences we are one
There is nothing wrong with it in my opinion. If 2 people really love each other the color of a persons skin shouldn't matter at all.

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What does the bible say about polyamorous/polygamous relationships?

Having/loving more than one partner.What does the bible say about polyamorous/polygamous relationships?
the bible doe not specifically forbid polygamy , however the apostle Paul suggested that if a man was going to be in church leadership that he should only have one wife ( presumably to prevent distraction from spiritual matters) Polyamorality on the other hand is adulterous and therefore forbidden.What does the bible say about polyamorous/polygamous relationships?
what does the Koran say?
Why does it matter what a 6000 year old book written in a language almost no one can read says?

When your dating someone how long do you wait to have the how many past sexual relationships have you had talk?

Definitely not right away, and it depends what you want to know and why. If all you want to know is whether they're clean of STD's, you can just if they've been tested recently before you consider getting sexually involved with them. But if you want to know about level of experience and attitudes towards sex, that might be a conversation reserved for a time when you really know each other.

How important is sex in your marriage or relationships?

It's very important. Especially when throughout the day, children work and other things take up so much of each others day, it's nice to meet in the bed when you can be all alone with your spouse, and share the one part of each other that hasn't already been demanded from you during the day. It also gives a feeling of being connected to each other physically, and mentally. That feeling of closeness with my wife is what gets me through those crappy days when it feels like the whole world is out to get me.How important is sex in your marriage or relationships?
Sex is not all that important, but making love is very important.How important is sex in your marriage or relationships?
Very important. I would guess it's pretty important to most people, but they may not want to admit it because they think it's shallow, but come on, grown people don't date or get married to NOT have sex.......
Very important...as a sexual act but most of all as an act of intimacy.
being sexually compatible is important. If one wants it more than the other, one will feel cheated and the other will feel used.
Sex, Sex, Sex, boy, thats a defanition all by its self.


Sex in boyfriend and girlfriend relation ships is not a very important act to do, but when you are married that is a totaly different matter all by itself.


Sex in the marrige is , vittale, union, love as one, a way for the man and a woman to become as one.


Do you read the Bible?


Well if you do, you find how important it truely is in the marriage.


The Bible states that the man is the head of the house hold and that a woman should if possable subbmit to her husband at all times.


Look in the Bible under refrnces, to find the ansewers you are looking for, in the what is the womans role as a wife.
not that important b/c in relationship it shouldnt be the only thing....a couple should go out and have fun alot and they should get along...sex is just something to do
It's necessary to understand how each other sees its importance.





As my wife and I deal with the exhausting task of parenthood among other lifestyle matters, we can at least appreciate that we empathize for each other in that way, until our next opportunity to consummate our relationship.





Because I would miss sex during a dry spell (and have), it's quite important to at least express this.
Very important, especially for males. Sometimes, when everything else fails, this is the last string that binds.

Why do men have to turn nasty after relationships?

Ok so a guy cheats etc during a relationship so EVENTUALLY ive had enough and end it, and then he does ALL he can to hurt me...why?





Why does he not get it that he ALREADY hurt me, hense we are over ?!!Why do men have to turn nasty after relationships?
Coz in his head he still didn't do anything to you, for him it was just normal to do that to you, then when you found out, then he had to deny it of course and then prove to you that okay, i have to hurt her now coz she's accusing me of something i didn't do, (which he actually did, only you discovered it before he could confess) and so now, he thinks the least he could do is to hurt you...





most guys are just freaks! so be careful and ignore this guy! he's not worth your time!





goodluck! ^__^





Why do men have to turn nasty after relationships?
The only times I consider being nasty is when I am betrayed. But I'm a really nice guy and would have a hard time going through with anything nasty. What you have is a classic jerk. My parents are in the process of getting divorced after 31+ years of marriage and my father is a real pain in the rear, he's making it miserable still even though they are separated. He's just being a typical male pig, you broke it off, so he's pissy about it. He didn't want it to end, wanted you to keep taking the abuse and be his arm candy or whatever it was he was using you for.
He probably wants you to get so annoyed that you will end up getting back with him just so that he stops giving you grief.





Guys like to hurt people who have hurt them. He will think that you ending it caused him more pain than he ever caused you and want revenge.





Just remember that you are worth more than him. He will get bored and leave you alone after a while
WOW THAT SUCKS SOME GUYS ARE JERKS. I ONLY GET NASTY IF I ASSUMED THEY CHEATED ON ME!
He wants you.

How are we a reflection of our relationships?

how are we not? everything we think will eventually manifest itself into our lives. this takes the form of relationships, often. a lot of people are a reflection of parts of ourselves we either recognize and embrace or deny and dont realize on a conscious level. results of relationships often shape who we become to a large degree.

How do I stop being used in relationships?

If I get into a relationship then it always ends up with my being used. It is never equal. How can I find a relationship where I am not the person who does all the work and does all the caring? I always seem to be doing the taking care of and not being taken care of. I end up used for sex or to fill a void or a period of time for guys. None of them think of me for long term and just take what they can in the moment. I am not a person who even puts out sexually very easily so when I do it is a big decision for me and so I am not easy to get but when they get me they feel they have achieved and then move on. I feel like a **** but yet I have only had 3 sexual partners and never just randomly get with someone. 2 guys I was with couldnt believe how 'good' I was at forfilling their needs sexually. I just seem to be able to do it but not get any of my needs or wants filled. I just feel like an object to be used then dropped. I was abused by a number of people during my childhood so it feels like this kind of abuse is continuing no matter how hard I try to break the cycle. Any advice?How do I stop being used in relationships?
before you commit yourself in a relationship.





sayyy, while a guy is courting you... try to be the one in control and make him do what you want and stuff like that.





and when you feel like the cycle is about to begin again, threaten the guy that you'll end the relationship and you don't like how he's treating you and if he doesn't change that means he doesn't love you enough so you might as well break it off.How do I stop being used in relationships?
Just so you know i only bothered to read the tittle of your question there is no point in me reading that pointless paragraph of yours. It's quite simple you don't want to be used... DON'T BE USED!.








bother me with this crap, stop being a coward stand up for yourself and tell the person who is using to f off!.
hard one.. unfortunately because of the abuse in you past, you have become conditioned to this type of relationship and unconsciously seek out ones that will fit your past conditions.. vicious cycle .. generally u need to seek consoling of some sort.. to begin to break the cycle.. cause until you do, you will never really be happy with a guy that does not abuse you.
Look for someone who wants a long term relationship and make sure that you feel the love back, not just you giving them it. I know its not the best advice in the world, but at least its something.
Therapist will help.....You just need to get to know them better. Trust me doesnt it suck when you think you know that person until down the road all their skeletons come out of the closet...
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! BE BRAVE AND STRONG!

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When you're single do you imagine relationships?

When you're single, do you imagine what it would be like to be in relationships with people you know as acquaintances, but not well at all but are attracted to? I don't mean obsessively, but imagining yourself doing activities with them, like going for a walk or something. Or am I just pathetic?When you're single do you imagine relationships?
N-E-V-E-R... that's when i'm single. But now when i'm in a relationship, it's the best thing ever, because i love him.When you're single do you imagine relationships?
I used to do it more when I was younger and never had any relationships. I had quite an imagination and they were usually always good fantasies. But after being in some crappy relationships and being depressed, I don鈥檛 fantasize as vividly anymore.





I still have fantasies about being in relationships with a bunch of different guys, but never in-depth ones as much anymore. I鈥檝e become too jaded.
i bet everyone does that. i do that.


don't feel pathetic, cause you aren't. :p





the only times i wouldn't think of those things AT ALL, is if i was actually in a relationship. but don't trip, yo're not alone on this one.





:)
yes I definately do, i believe its normal, unless its just you and me lol.





but i have to say, its hella fun being single :P





eve though id prefer to be in a relationship right now.
haha finally!!!! someone else who does that!!!!!!! except i imagine it with the person I like. NOT in a sexual way tho! hahaha you are NOT pathetic hehe
haha noo ur not pathetic, it is totally normal!!:D
You aren't pathetic, I totally do that too. No worries :)

Essay topic: The theme of father/son relationships in Huckleberry Finn?

I could do with some help with this essay. We're supposed to discuss how the theme of father/son relationships is portrayed in The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, by Mark Twain.


We should discuss not only Huck's actual father, but also the father-figure shown in Jim.





Any ideas? Assistance would be appreciated.


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Relationships: Do you have to like the same things?

To be in a relationship with someone, do you need to like the same things, speak the same language, have similar style, like the same places, the same kinds of music, etc.? What things should you have in common to have a good relationship? Relationships: Do you have to like the same things?
Those are just things, relationships are about love, communication, trust.


I don't see how any of those things could stop you from the main things important to make a relationship work.


Although, it could cause problems.


Believe me, My boyfriend and I are COMPLETE opposites.


He likes one thing, I hate it! It causes a lot of arguments, but at the end of the day I love him for who he is and he loves me for who I am.


Opposites attract.


Relationships: Do you have to like the same things?
you dont have to have anything in common depending on your personality type. me- artsy, independent, adventurous, etc. my bf- loves football, hates adventures, etc.





you just have to know what is important to you.
no you dont. its ok to have at least some things in common but not everything. i mean its good to have youre differences its whats makes you you. opposites attract
It helps to have things you like in common like music, or movies, books or other actives you both like to do.





The important ones are your moral convictions, your thoughts on subjects such as religion, and having somewhat similar goals...like say having kids or not having kids, important stuff ;P





And, you have to like the way the person treats people and treats you. You won't like everything they do, but things like~ do they kick old ladies or help them across the street~ you will know what you can and can't live with...





Hope that helped!

How do I stop being used in relationships?

If I get into a relationship then it always ends up with my being used. It is never equal. How can I find a relationship where I am not the person who does all the work and does all the caring? I always seem to be doing the taking care of and not being taken care of. I end up used for sex or to fill a void or a period of time for guys. None of them think of me for long term and just take what they can in the moment. I am not a person who even puts out sexually very easily so when I do it is a big decision for me and so I am not easy to get but when they get me they feel they have achieved and then move on. I feel like a slut but yet I have only had 3 sexual partners and never just randomly get with someone. 2 guys I was with couldnt believe how 'good' I was at forfilling their needs sexually. I just seem to be able to do it but not get any of my needs or wants filled. I just feel like an object to be used then dropped. I was abused by a number of people during my childhood so it feels like this kind of abuse is continuing no matter how hard I try to break the cycle. Any advice?How do I stop being used in relationships?
before you commit yourself in a relationship.





sayyy, while a guy is courting you... try to be the one in control and make him do what you want and stuff like that.





and when you feel like the cycle is about to begin again, threaten the guy that you'll end the relationship and you don't like how he's treating you and if he doesn't change that means he doesn't love you enough so you might as well break it off.How do I stop being used in relationships?
Just so you know i only bothered to read the tittle of your question there is no point in me reading that pointless paragraph of yours. It's quite simple you don't want to be used... DON'T BE USED!.








bother me with this crap, stop being a coward stand up for yourself and tell the person who is using to f off!.
hard one.. unfortunately because of the abuse in you past, you have become conditioned to this type of relationship and unconsciously seek out ones that will fit your past conditions.. vicious cycle .. generally u need to seek consoling of some sort.. to begin to break the cycle.. cause until you do, you will never really be happy with a guy that does not abuse you.
Look for someone who wants a long term relationship and make sure that you feel the love back, not just you giving them it. I know its not the best advice in the world, but at least its something.
Therapist will help.....You just need to get to know them better. Trust me doesnt it suck when you think you know that person until down the road all their skeletons come out of the closet...
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! BE BRAVE AND STRONG!

When you're single do you imagine relationships?

When you're single, do you imagine what it would be like to be in relationships with people you know as acquaintances, but not well at all but are attracted to? I don't mean obsessively, but imagining yourself doing activities with them, like going for a walk or something. Or am I just pathetic?When you're single do you imagine relationships?
N-E-V-E-R... that's when i'm single. But now when i'm in a relationship, it's the best thing ever, because i love him.When you're single do you imagine relationships?
I used to do it more when I was younger and never had any relationships. I had quite an imagination and they were usually always good fantasies. But after being in some crappy relationships and being depressed, I don鈥檛 fantasize as vividly anymore.





I still have fantasies about being in relationships with a bunch of different guys, but never in-depth ones as much anymore. I鈥檝e become too jaded.
i bet everyone does that. i do that.


don't feel pathetic, cause you aren't. :p





the only times i wouldn't think of those things AT ALL, is if i was actually in a relationship. but don't trip, yo're not alone on this one.





:)
yes I definately do, i believe its normal, unless its just you and me lol.





but i have to say, its hella fun being single :P





eve though id prefer to be in a relationship right now.
haha finally!!!! someone else who does that!!!!!!! except i imagine it with the person I like. NOT in a sexual way tho! hahaha you are NOT pathetic hehe
haha noo ur not pathetic, it is totally normal!!:D
You aren't pathetic, I totally do that too. No worries :)

Essay topic: The theme of father/son relationships in Huckleberry Finn?

I could do with some help with this essay. We're supposed to discuss how the theme of father/son relationships is portrayed in The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, by Mark Twain.


We should discuss not only Huck's actual father, but also the father-figure shown in Jim.





Any ideas? Assistance would be appreciated.


Thanks!Essay topic: The theme of father/son relationships in Huckleberry Finn?
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Relationships: Do you have to like the same things?

To be in a relationship with someone, do you need to like the same things, speak the same language, have similar style, like the same places, the same kinds of music, etc.? What things should you have in common to have a good relationship? Relationships: Do you have to like the same things?
Those are just things, relationships are about love, communication, trust.


I don't see how any of those things could stop you from the main things important to make a relationship work.


Although, it could cause problems.


Believe me, My boyfriend and I are COMPLETE opposites.


He likes one thing, I hate it! It causes a lot of arguments, but at the end of the day I love him for who he is and he loves me for who I am.


Opposites attract.


Relationships: Do you have to like the same things?
you dont have to have anything in common depending on your personality type. me- artsy, independent, adventurous, etc. my bf- loves football, hates adventures, etc.





you just have to know what is important to you.
It helps to have things you like in common like music, or movies, books or other actives you both like to do.





The important ones are your moral convictions, your thoughts on subjects such as religion, and having somewhat similar goals...like say having kids or not having kids, important stuff ;P





And, you have to like the way the person treats people and treats you. You won't like everything they do, but things like~ do they kick old ladies or help them across the street~ you will know what you can and can't live with...





Hope that helped!
no you dont. its ok to have at least some things in common but not everything. i mean its good to have youre differences its whats makes you you. opposites attract

What are some early warning signs of relationships difficulties?

When you start to question the relationship.What are some early warning signs of relationships difficulties?
Withholding conversation.


Withholding sex.


Calling names.


Saying 'you always' or 'you never'.


Abuse of alcohol, children, spouse, etc.What are some early warning signs of relationships difficulties?
Women have a way of clamping their legs together with about 5,000 pounds of force, and nothing short of a winch can pry them apart. This is usually a pretty good indicator or a problem. Even if you CAN pry them apart, the result is something like driving down the street after a couple of wheels have fallen off your car.





Women develop serious problems with just about everything, which is why Neanderthal Man invented the Club.
Bad breath in the morning, flatulence.
This can depend on the couple and what stage the relationship is at?





Just dating, for less then 3 months? Not returning calls, avoiding going out with you, long periods of no contact.





3 months + Once again long periods of no contact, avoiding calls, little arguments over petty stuff (what your wearing how your eating stuff like that)





Defacto Relationship and or Marriage:





Petty arguments, silent periods, slamming down of itmes, snide remarks on a constant basis (ie:daily) Seperate lives all together.





I hope I have helped you find an answer.
If your wife always seems busy; she never want to go out and do the things you used to do; ignores just about everything you do; just plain does NOT give a d*** if you live or die.
Less Sex.
asking questions like that
Lying, sneakiness, avoidance....
fights.
The surest and the earlist warning signs of relationship problem is talking less with the partner.Answering in yes no forms and showing little interest to open up.
Starting a relationship.

What is your attitude about long distance relationships?

Just a curiosity. i have been involved in one that started online 2 1/2 years ago and i couldn't be happier!What is your attitude about long distance relationships?
well it is sure addictive...%26amp; sure down the line getting physical too is so much fun but needs all in u..to make it fun..else dont start on it..u will wither up with time ...%26amp; talking everything thats under the sun with someone online sure is enticing..if both can handle...


remember u aint physically together..so needs a lot of mind power...frm both...u bet it could be a gr8 experience...share all %26amp; fear none...u gotta get down with it straight head on with ur feeling...%26amp; knowing wats in other party's mind..only then does it go well..%26amp; sure fights will happen..but the make over sure makes the relation so much stronger..it could be a silence for days but then when things get right u would know more of each other...hav to use ur reasoning sense to the max.


well nothing like it to hav someone far who aint baised..%26amp; does care...if later in life if wanna meet wow nothing like it..but be safe..not all times its right...%26amp; sure in end being physically close %26amp; distance relation r different..respect that fact %26amp; all should b ok


enjoyWhat is your attitude about long distance relationships?
Long distance relationship works, but you also need an extreme level of trust and loyalty and also you need to visit each other. Physical is the glue. Emotional is just like the wind, words are nice but doing something for that loved one is just super special.
I DID THAT FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS . NOT SO GOOD FOR ME .AFTER 2 YEARS I GAVE UP .
I think that they work if they are meant to be. My husband and I dated for 2 1/2 years before getting married, and we were in the same zip code for only 3 months out of that time. granted, we knew each other from high school, but still. It worked for us!
well i have been in one for almost 1 montha dn a half, if its that long you 2 should try to meet, were trying to get that far, but we talk every day and im the happiest iv actually ever been, cause im usually not the loveing type but that long theres a chance hell never weant to lose you so u basically will love each other fo rever, so ya im up for em if ur smart for em and ur not stupid and give ur number on the first chat..
very difficult but not impossible
i dont really like them. i like having a pysical side too.
if it works out then you know what makkes you happy my friend met his wife over the internet. good luck yes i would say yes to this . my opion?
I would never have or do anything like that because I'm a very personable person and have to have that human touch to know I'm loved and not just a ';I love you'; over the phone will make me happy enough. I was also married to a salesman for five years and I was home alone Monday through Friday that whole time. I could only take five years of it and then divorced because the loneliness was killing me. More power to you for making it work though. Your more of a woman than I am!
They seem a hell of a lot better than the ones I meet in person first. I honestly have to say I prefer to meet them after getting to know them online first.
What do you two do about sex?? Sounds boring to me..
if it works for the person, but I wouldn't do it, I find that touching someone whether it's a hug or simple pat of affection is important.





They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, but I find that as a lame excuse.

Did Helen Keller ever have any romantic relationships?

site your sources, 10 pts up for grabs!Did Helen Keller ever have any romantic relationships?
Yes. In 1916, while Annie Sullivan was ill, Helen fell in love with her temporary secretary, Peter Fagan. They were going to be married, but Helen's mother put a stop to it. It was very sad. helen Keller remembered her love as ';a little island of joy, surrounded by darkness.'; She always regretted her spinsterstood. ';If i could see, I would marry first of all.'; she said.Did Helen Keller ever have any romantic relationships?
unfortunatly no. She was alone (romanticly) for her whole life. Se did however have many kind friends like alexander graham bell.

Why married women prefer to make sexual relationships with married men?

no strings they are both married , it's just sexWhy married women prefer to make sexual relationships with married men?
probably the same reason married men like to cheat with younger women...variety


Now women are more emotional so they want to feel special because they are not getting the proper attention or feelings from hubby..he takes them for granted and treats then like a maid and cheats with work and younger females.Why married women prefer to make sexual relationships with married men?
because thats what they promised to do? only 1 specific married man.
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What is it that makes long term relationships work? please help!?

Ive been with my boyfriend for over two years now and we live together. I noticed that quite a few of my friends who have been dating somone for along time are breaking up. and I thought they were fine!





How can I keep our relationship strong and last? We are only 19, but I love him. Im just afraid after seeing my friends break up that we would randomly break up too. please helpWhat is it that makes long term relationships work? please help!?
Good communications. As simple as that.What is it that makes long term relationships work? please help!?
i need to know to same problem =[

What are your views on long distance relationships?

I am currently in a long distance relationship and I have to say that it is so much more difficult than in person. You have to learn to talk things through and really listen to your significant other to figure out how he/she feels because you can't read body language like you can in person. You also have to really trust the other, because since your not there with them you won't know what they're doing and such and it is really easy to have suspicions and get angry over little things. But if you're commited and you're willing to work things through and talk then it will work =) I would know ^-^What are your views on long distance relationships?
They dont work period. Since it is Long distance that means that if you or them do something bad, they or you will never ever know because they are so far away...trust me they are not worth it, just get a bf from in town so that you can see eachother all the time like a normal relationship, yes they can still do their dirt but it will be harder for you not to find out because word gets aroundWhat are your views on long distance relationships?
I am currently in a long-distance relationship and I can attest that it does have problems! There's the dependence on telephone calls and e-mails, the infrequent and somewhat unsatisfactory occasional meetings (we're 931 miles apart), and the difficulty in getting to know each other deeply. I'm sorry this sounds so negative, but I think you should realistically assess how satisfactory it is likely to be for you. Don't overly romanticize it.
It takes a very strong couple to accomplish one. A LOT of trust is required. Like...mountains of trust. Like, completely 100%. If ya don't in the slightest, you will go crazy, and probably end up breaking up eventually, or you will turn your life upside down and go to the person. Which is a bad idea because if it doesnt work your fd.
i really don't like or trust them but if u know u can trust her 100% and u know u love her and she loves u then go 4 it but if u have a lil negativity then maybe u should think bout it again..but personally i wouldn't do it but u know ur relationship better then anybody els so its all up 2 u
i was in one for about 9 months. if you love and trust each other then it is fine. also you need to see each other at least one weekend a month.





good luck if you are in one
They can work. I am living proof of it . I am now married to the AMAZING man. When we dated I lived in minnesota and he lived in virginia. We are living in Virginia now.
im in 1 rite now we have been dating for 1 year we love eachother and trust eachother he lives in california i live in wisconsn we tlk everyday there good aslong as u tlk
if you love and trust each other and truly believe in your relationship then it will work...communication is the key
it will not work because you can not talk and see the person the way they think and grow you have friend but know that you can visit when you need them today
if you love each other and trust each other everything will work out!
as long as u keep talking all the time


and see each other all the time


then it should work
They usually don't last.

What are your views on long distance relationships?

The best %26amp; the worst at once. Best : you never get bored of each other, you get to miss the other person, have plenty to talk about whenever you DO meet and distance gives you THAT challenge to want to be with each other even more. Worst: You don't know if what the other person says is real, it might be all set up, you don't know what the other one is doing, wether they are with someone else or not, what kind of lifestyle they have or if they're just getting from you what they can't get at home...And if you ever go visit, keep your eyes open for lil' signs as they'll be easy to spot if you pay attention. If the other person always comes visit, it means they don't want you around their ';comfort zone';. Just listen to your mind and follow your heart and you should be OK as there are no rules when it comes to ';love';...What are your views on long distance relationships?
Long distance relationships dont generally work due to the fact of you not seeing each other regularly enough. Would one of you be prepared to move closer to the other person in given time? If your serious enough then there is no reason why you cant and why it cant work just as good as seeing someone who lives down the street.What are your views on long distance relationships?
They never work unless there is an end to the distance. You have to realize that we are constantly growing each and every day. So you can imagine that if you two aren't in close proximity of each other you'll naturally grow apart. And without the fulfillment of that physical touch or quality time the feeling of love will disappear. It's all chemical. :)





So good luck and meet a great guy in your city!





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I am contemplating the same thing as of now. For myself and him I have absolutely no desire to be with anyone else. We have decided to go out with other people to see if we constantly feel the same for each other. Funny things is we both cant seem to bring ourselves to do so. This is a hard situation!! But my honest opinion is if neither one is willing to move then it will never work.
LDR'S are hard work more than Im willing to put in. I therefore tend not to get involved in them. You get out of it what you put in. Good luck
they don't work out. if you truly love someone you should try to move closer to each other. otherwise yeah they are a waste of time.
They suck! The trust definitely has to be there. At the end somebody has to move.
they require a lot of trust
Never saw one that worked out.... pretty much a waste of time.

What makes a serious relationship different from other relationships?????PLZ HELP?

I really wanna know I can't tell. What makes a serious relationship different from other relationships?????What makes a serious relationship different from other relationships?????PLZ HELP?
A serious relation ship, requires more dedication. Like she would be considered your only girlfriend, her parents might have to meet her.


You would meet her parents,


Introduce her to you friends and vise versa


Go to dates regularly, hang out with the family and friends.


Comit only if you really love her and if she is a good girl.





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Why isn't there a family and relationships category?

I asked a question and it was in that category, but it wasn't there anymore, why is this?Why isn't there a family and relationships category?
Family has turned into love. You'll see a lot of changes in yahoo answers lately. I think it's rather nice.Why isn't there a family and relationships category?
There is still a family and relationship category it is under Love and relationships.
As usual most people are to busy for family and relationship. No one wants to take the time anymore.

What role do emotions/feelings play in relationships?

If you are in a relationship, why is it important to share your feelings and stuff?What role do emotions/feelings play in relationships?
If you never communicate what you do and don't like, then the other person will have trouble knowing what you do and don't like him or her to do. However, to constantly express your emotions is a bad idea because it makes you seem self-centered, critical, and annoying. So, in order to help the other person know how to get along with you, express your emotions on things that are really important to you. Also, when you do decide to express an emotion, do it when the other person is most likely to listen and take it well. This may involve waiting for the right moment.What role do emotions/feelings play in relationships?
I think that with out them it is just a booty call/sex.
The beginning of a relationship is all emotion. The beginning of love is usually sight. The sharing of feelings shouldn't be so soon. You've really got to get a feel of the other person. How many times has a girl given her heart felt feelings to a new guy and it becomes a point of laughter to his friends. Love , but proceed with caution.
because ur emotions are part of you---the describe how you feel about something or someone----without emotions we would be robots--and wouldnt that be boring?
Oh I cnt over emphasis hw important it is...I mean am in a lng distnce relationship and we' ve been apart for a year now but our relationship is growing so strong and its all bcos of being able to communicate freely with each other wivout holding back or being afraid of wat d other myt say.





You can never always tell wats on ur partners mind,so it'll be helpful if u guys could communicate...and truth is,it helps to strengthen the friendship in the relationship.


Goodluck...
If you don't communitcate, don't share your feelings... how would you know what the other person really wants?





At the end of the day, we only do things so people can treat us the same...





Ask yourself, do you want to know what he feels for you? Do you want him to know how you feel for him?


So knowing that, is it important or is it not important? :)
pretty much just to piss your partner off.
they get in the way yo have think with out these feelsing or beawaer what your saying
what ? i'd just beat it and leave ... where are you from ?
To create a feeling of trust and relieve any insecurities your lover might have, its always good to share your feelings, and if your in love its should be no proble sharing.

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What were Darwin's views on the relationships between various organisms?

Darwinian theory states that within an ecoclimate/system an ubundance of organisms interact depend and compete for survival.


Some even co-exist this is known as symbiosis,where both organisms have become mutually dependant on each oters existance for survival.What were Darwin's views on the relationships between various organisms?
He believed that depending on where things lived, they would interact with the other biotic things in their environment, and sometimes they would need to acclimate to stay in the same environment, as the things around it. For example, in the Galapagos Islands, there were birds that had the same beak sizes, meaning they ate the same things, but then one of the birds acclimated so that it would not be killed off from that certain environment.

Do women who find themselves in abusive relationships over and over again have form of M眉nchhausen Syndrome?

I'm blown away that so many people are under the misconception that those suffering from Munchhausen's fake their ailments. They inflict an ailment upon themselves, take poison, puncture an ear drum. They are physically ill but they caused the illness. I see where you're going. Perhaps they get into the abusive relationships in order to recieve the injurys that send them to the ER. Problem with this theory is most of these women don't seek medical treatment and when they do they make an excuse for it. If Munchausens were involved they would want an undiagnosable ailment that would lead to tests, hospitalization and a lot of attention. Abused women shrink from attention.


Low self esteem is more the cause of the women who repeat the behavior. They don't feel capable of being independant, they need a man to take care of them but they don't feel worthy of a man who treats them well. I wonder if we're seeing more of this because in this day, most men want a equal partner as a wife, not someone who needs to be cared for. For the women who need a caregiver the pickings are being narrowed down to men with a control issue which is the first step to being an abuser.


We can all do our daughters a favor by raising them to be strong independant women who can enjoy a relationship but don't NEED a relationship.Do women who find themselves in abusive relationships over and over again have form of M眉nchhausen Syndrome?
Now my question to you is where you would (personally) see any evidence of this being possible? Many people have already stated what the true meaning behind Munchhausen Syndrome is, so I'm not going to reiterate their statements. But because I've witnessed many men and women who're or at one time where involved in mentally/physically abusive relationship, I (from my own personal experience) would have to say no.





Women and men who stay in these sort of relationships have sort of disconnect between reality and make-believe (sort of like the syndrome you mentioned). They believe that by staying with their abusers and enduring the physical and psychological punishment, they're proving to the abusers that their love for them is unconditional. Some feel that their vows before god are sacred and will not be broken (For better or worse), even if it means them being broken physically. Broken bones, black eyes, gunshot/stab wounds, emotional baggage and damage, and sometimes death are all the result of abuse being suffered at the hands of a lover (very rarely at the hands of the one鈥檚 being abused).





The only way this 'disconnect' would be related to the mentioned disorder was if the victim was causing the afflictions upon themselves. In most instances (based on what I've seen) this is not the case. People (meaning men and women) who cry out for help are not making it up. I'm not saying that it's not possible (because I've seen this happen before too). I would have to say that the cases I've seen where real and the abuser was found guilty and punished.





And while I'm at it, what made you ask this question? What incidents have you witnesses personally would cause you try and find the relation between an abusive relationship and Munchhausen Syndrome?Do women who find themselves in abusive relationships over and over again have form of M眉nchhausen Syndrome?
No... It's definitely not a form of M眉nchhausen Syndrome, though I have often wondered if it was something like Stockholm Syndrome, when a prisoner or other victim begins to identify with their captor...





We learn about love from our parents or parental figures and how we relate in relationships can be directly affected by that dynamic. My mother was raised by an abusive father and that is how she learned of ';love'; so that is what she sought. She has been in numerous relationships with numerous men and almost every single one of them, including my father, was abusive in one way or another. The only ones that were good for her, she couldn't handle and she ran away from. Unfortunately, that is a common theme among women in abusive relationships. That or they believe that, for whatever untrue reason, they deserve this treatment...
Munchausen Syndrome seems to be another name for hypochondria. (the person themself feigning illness to gain attention as opposed to Munchausen Syndrome by proxy which is a mother making her child(ren) sick to gain attention for themselves). Women who are in repeated abusive relationships are most likely to have very low self-esteem and their abusers have convinced them that they are without worth outside the relationship i.e. that without them (the abuser) the woman is worthless, the abuser makes them a ';human being';.
';Munchausen syndrome is a psychiatric disorder in which those affected fake disease, illness, or psychological trauma in order to draw attention or sympathy to themselves'; so obviously not. The bruises, broken bones, etc. are quite real.
Are you thinking of Stockholm Syndrome, where a hostage/kidnap victim falls for, or starts being loyal to their captor? I could see a person who is in multiple abusive relationships maybe having some form of this.
I think they have some kind of mental problems, but probably not that one, since it would require that all of her ailments be fictitious.





A combination of masochism and low self esteem seems more likely.
No they just pick gutless a**h***s who call themselves men!
No, has nothing to do with it.
no!
NO





What a weird idea

What are your views on long distance relationships?

Not easy, but if you can be committed to them, make the effort to make it work, talk to each other daily and visit as often as possible, they can sometimes work, at least for a while. They require a lot of work though, and unless you really love the person to death and there are plans that in future that you will live closer together, I would say they're not worth sticking with for too long.What are your views on long distance relationships?
It would be frustrating to say the least. =/

Another year what have you learned about relationships?

what have you learned this past year in terms of relationships?





whether you have found you soulmate or recent breakup. etc.Another year what have you learned about relationships?
That they suck more than last year..Another year what have you learned about relationships?
I have learned that some things are meant to last and other things arnt. Some things happen for a reason. In the past year I have been through a breakup and a new relationship that I know will last.


I have learned a lot.. Matured a lot over the last year. I have learned how to identify lies better and trust only certain people with certain things that they say.
after the last 2 years of ups and downs, with 2 ex's , i dont want no other relationship again. not for a loooooong long while anyway. am happy to admire / be admired, but thats it!!


anything else is going to be on my terms. period!


my peace of mind is priceless to me now.





what have you learnt?
that when you have a good guy who likes you, go for it cause he doesnt wait around forever and when you like him back it might be too late


yet i made that mistake again already ? lmfao
Don't try to have a relationship with someone who is mentally challenged. They are never logical.

What are your opinions on same sex relationships?

Let them love who they want.


Its no ones business but theirs.





It's not really different from a regular relationship except for the fact its between two people of the same sex. I don't see why its such a problem. its not hurting anyone.What are your opinions on same sex relationships?
The same as my opinions on opposite sex relationships. Whatever two consenting adults get up to is none of my business.What are your opinions on same sex relationships?
Wow a lot of homophobes here, but Im not against same sex relationships and marriage
It is an abomination toward God. Enough said.
the thoughts of them kissing and sex...gross
Whatever floats your boat...
Fine with me.
I wouldn't do it.
I don't really care.

Another year what have you learned about relationships?

what have you learned this past year in terms of relationships?





whether you have found you soulmate or recent breakup. etc.Another year what have you learned about relationships?
That they suck more than last year..Another year what have you learned about relationships?
I have learned that some things are meant to last and other things arnt. Some things happen for a reason. In the past year I have been through a breakup and a new relationship that I know will last.


I have learned a lot.. Matured a lot over the last year. I have learned how to identify lies better and trust only certain people with certain things that they say.
after the last 2 years of ups and downs, with 2 ex's , i dont want no other relationship again. not for a loooooong long while anyway. am happy to admire / be admired, but thats it!!


anything else is going to be on my terms. period!


my peace of mind is priceless to me now.





what have you learnt?
that when you have a good guy who likes you, go for it cause he doesnt wait around forever and when you like him back it might be too late


yet i made that mistake again already ? lmfao
Don't try to have a relationship with someone who is mentally challenged. They are never logical.

this works

What are your opinions on same sex relationships?

Let them love who they want.


Its no ones business but theirs.





It's not really different from a regular relationship except for the fact its between two people of the same sex. I don't see why its such a problem. its not hurting anyone.What are your opinions on same sex relationships?
The same as my opinions on opposite sex relationships. Whatever two consenting adults get up to is none of my business.What are your opinions on same sex relationships?
Wow a lot of homophobes here, but Im not against same sex relationships and marriage
It is an abomination toward God. Enough said.
the thoughts of them kissing and sex...gross
Whatever floats your boat...
Fine with me.
I wouldn't do it.
I don't really care.

Why do I feel this way about relationships?

Well, I really want to find love. And I'd be thrilled to know if a guy is interested in me . However, I've realized that if this guy asks me out, I woud turn him down. And I wouldn't like to let this guy get to know about me. The problem is I want to find love but reality scares me a lot. Life is no fairy tale unfortnately. Why do I feel so ? And what can I do to let go of this fear and stop creating barriers? ThanksWhy do I feel this way about relationships?
Have you wondered why? maybe you felt rejected in past relationships and don't want to get through the same painful situation


When i broke up with my last gf, it hurted me a lot, cuz i had feelings for her, but i didn't give up hoping that one day i would find a trustworthy person to whom i share my feeling with..you should do the same, trust in love possibilities cuz they're a lot: you may find a good man, but first you have to show him a little availability, it's not much .it's just the first step. Then, you'll build up together a strong relationship based on mutual confidence.


Cheers! DavidWhy do I feel this way about relationships?
I've dealt with the same issue before and I found out that there is no recipe of 'how to get mr. right', because nobody is able to offer indications for each case apart . Generally, in our cases it's more a matter of trust and self-confidence.


There are two sides of the issue :


1) one would be to believe that there is love out there for you and for everybody. if you don't believe in it, you don't have chances to find it;


2) and secondly, when you meet a guy you like and he reciprocates, you should give him a chance to approach you. otherwise you'll never know if he is good or not. But first, you have to have CONFIDENCE in you selection criteria. See if that man is good or not? is he's treating you the way you want to be treated...


I really find admirably that you don't let yourself drawn in any kind of relationship, just for the sake of it.


But don't push things to the other extreme .it's good to take some risks from time to time, because it gives us a chace to live an experience, good or not, but in the end we learn something from it.
You're an idiot. Nothing worth having comes easy. You can't cross the finish line if you're not even willing to enter the race. Stop holding yourself back and getting in your own way. You need to let people in and get to know you, and genuinely be interested in other people as well, if you want any change of finding a real loving relationship.
to be in relationships is so nice and give u one off the reasons to live , anyways i think u feel like that because u are not ready to be in a relationship even u like someone , take your time and think what is important to you in this time


actually i like someone but i'm not ready at all to be in relationship because it's not the right time for that
go somewhere like disney in orlando to be around other peopple and fell more comfortable and spontaneous you will like that more than staying home and pouting. Treat yourself royally and other people will too
I felt like this for ages and cryed almost every night because of it.... I now have a fiance..! Explains it all!