Friday, November 25, 2011

What are your views on long distance relationships?

I am currently in a long distance relationship and I have to say that it is so much more difficult than in person. You have to learn to talk things through and really listen to your significant other to figure out how he/she feels because you can't read body language like you can in person. You also have to really trust the other, because since your not there with them you won't know what they're doing and such and it is really easy to have suspicions and get angry over little things. But if you're commited and you're willing to work things through and talk then it will work =) I would know ^-^What are your views on long distance relationships?
They dont work period. Since it is Long distance that means that if you or them do something bad, they or you will never ever know because they are so far away...trust me they are not worth it, just get a bf from in town so that you can see eachother all the time like a normal relationship, yes they can still do their dirt but it will be harder for you not to find out because word gets aroundWhat are your views on long distance relationships?
I am currently in a long-distance relationship and I can attest that it does have problems! There's the dependence on telephone calls and e-mails, the infrequent and somewhat unsatisfactory occasional meetings (we're 931 miles apart), and the difficulty in getting to know each other deeply. I'm sorry this sounds so negative, but I think you should realistically assess how satisfactory it is likely to be for you. Don't overly romanticize it.
It takes a very strong couple to accomplish one. A LOT of trust is required. Like...mountains of trust. Like, completely 100%. If ya don't in the slightest, you will go crazy, and probably end up breaking up eventually, or you will turn your life upside down and go to the person. Which is a bad idea because if it doesnt work your fd.
i really don't like or trust them but if u know u can trust her 100% and u know u love her and she loves u then go 4 it but if u have a lil negativity then maybe u should think bout it again..but personally i wouldn't do it but u know ur relationship better then anybody els so its all up 2 u
i was in one for about 9 months. if you love and trust each other then it is fine. also you need to see each other at least one weekend a month.





good luck if you are in one
They can work. I am living proof of it . I am now married to the AMAZING man. When we dated I lived in minnesota and he lived in virginia. We are living in Virginia now.
im in 1 rite now we have been dating for 1 year we love eachother and trust eachother he lives in california i live in wisconsn we tlk everyday there good aslong as u tlk
if you love and trust each other and truly believe in your relationship then it will work...communication is the key
it will not work because you can not talk and see the person the way they think and grow you have friend but know that you can visit when you need them today
if you love each other and trust each other everything will work out!
as long as u keep talking all the time


and see each other all the time


then it should work
They usually don't last.

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