Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What do you think about abusive relationships- is it true love?

If either the woman or man is emotionally/physically abusing the other spouse or lover. Can you say that the person loves the other one? Or if the abusive person is able to die for the other? Do you think they ever experienced true love or it can never happen. OR it depends on the situation? If so, can we still label it as love? Can be a bit confusing, sorry. but thanks for your opinions!What do you think about abusive relationships- is it true love?
I Was In A Year And A Half Relationship With I Guy I Fell In Love With. He Emotionally %26amp; Physically Abused Me. At The Time I Thought I Was In Love With Him And It Was Sorta Normal To Experience That. I Looked Past The Abuse Because I Was In Love With Him. I Think You Can Be In Love With Someone And They Can Be Abusive.What do you think about abusive relationships- is it true love?
Being in love does not hurt. The one being abused and allowing it to go on is in love with the idea that they can change this person. If they were a better person the abuser would stop this. They can't comprehend that the abuser is sick. The abuser is a very miserable person and can't find happiness in their life so they want to bring everyone around them down. If their spouse shows signs of joy of any kind this will set them off. So putting the two together is a very dangerous situation.
The abuser may well be in the love with the abused - but it is still an abusive relationship and not healthy. If you are in this kind of relationship, then get out of it as soon as you can.
Abusive individuals are telling others that they have a psychological problem. They feel inferior or unlovedl. Best to direct 'em to get professional help. When well, then check 'em out, later though.
hun if ur getting abused, get away from him and no its not love
All of these Scenarios are what are Called '; SICK Relationships '; . Run as Fast as You Can!!!!!! Get the He-- out of there before it becomes ';Normal'; to you!!!! No this is NOT LOVE!!!! It is Sick. Mentally, Emotionally, and Physically!!!
i believe that the person being abused thinks that it's true love therefore allowing the abuser to abuse them. they are scared and naive, they're afraid to leave or so badly abused whether it be physical or verbal that their self esteem and confidence are very low so they dont think anyone else would want them or dont have enough courage to find a way out. i would never call it true love. the abuser was most likely a victim of abuse or a witness to it growing up. I'm sure its possible to be in love at one point in an abusive relationship but no one should go through that and if they do, they have to realise they deserve much better.. its not love.

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