Most of my friends are in relationships and I struggle to be happy for them? I guess I'm jealous? Shy guy?

I'm 21 and in college and I suppose I'm not the best looking guy. I always seem single while my friends are in relationships. Any advice?Most of my friends are in relationships and I struggle to be happy for them? I guess I'm jealous? Shy guy?
Don't look for it !


It will find you a lot faster than you think !


Enjoy your freedom while you still can ...Most of my friends are in relationships and I struggle to be happy for them? I guess I'm jealous? Shy guy?
the right one God has picked for you just has not crossed your path yet. hang in there!
pretty girls r not always the best


try to get one for her soul who shares a lot with u in common
just don't look. it takes about 6 - 8 months (for me) every time i get rid of the previous. They just come knocking at door, its kinda weird but that is what happens.
Oh, you are just being insecure... I am a young girly and telling you now the right one will come around in good time. It is not jealousy. You just have to be patient and neat and strike up a conversation with a girl you like... but first be friends... then later take it to the next level... do not worry about this... take your time and things will happen for you.
Hi.... Okay don't worry it's all normal doesn't mean you're friends are in relationship you must have a girlfriend too.... Yeah you might not be the best looking guy but who cares... As long as you're a good hearted person everyone will love you..... If you want Advice This is my Advice..... Be friends with a girl started it out as friends then if you seem like the girl understands you then and she really seems like you're type than whens it's the time like valentines day bring her to an romantic place and give her things that are romantic and make sure she says Wow! sooo romantic maybe then she might fall for you :)
Wrong section FTW.
learn from them.





I was a shy, average at best looking guy, and I guess I still am. But at your age I felt similar.





You may be suffering from depression, and you can talk to your doctor about that. That was my problem.





Just try to have fun with your friends, don't come across as desperate or feeling sorry for yourself because that will send women running in the opposite direction.





I didn't find true love until age 36! Now I'm happily married with a wonderful 2 year old son!
You are more likely to attract a girl of your own, if you actually had a happy life of your own to share with someone. Desperate beggars do not get dates. If you want a relationship, then you need to bring something to the table, so to speak. You need something to offer to the other person that says, ';I'm a good choice for you';. If you don't have looks or money, then what you have to offer is ';fun';. If you are happy with your life, and you have a lot of meaningful things to occupy your time and keep you happy, then not only do you not have time to be jealous of others, but your overall relaxed %26amp; joyful mood will naturally attract others. Acting sad and desperate attracts almost no one (except other desperate people).





If you don't have any hobbies, try volunteering for something as a starter. It feels good to help other people, and who knows, you might accidentally meet another cute volunteer.





It's either that, or simply get over your shyness and force yourself to go meet people. Since you are a guy, it is unlikely that any woman will take the initiative and come over to you first.
So you are basing your happiness on someone else. If I were you I would become more self reliant than that. Otherwise you're just a thistle seed blowing in the wind.


You don't need others for happiness you just need to use your free will and refuse to be unhappy.


However, most people are single for a reason, but fail to recognise the fault lies with themselves. If you believe it's because you are shy then don't be shy. Be a couragous warrior, people dont normally bite you for saying hi.


You'd be suprise to learn how little other people worry about such things as other peoples self perceptions. Go for it.






Its not unnatural to be jealous, of course as humans we always want something we cant have especially if we see others with that thing we dont own. You should definetly think about change, change shouldnt be feared but accepted. If your shy then concentrate on changing the traits of your personality , if you looks are what concerns you more concentrate on that , definetly build a friendship with girls and who knows it might go on to be something better
I am like that too. I am a mother in my 30's and I have not had a real boyfriend in over 6 years or so (I lost track). I also don't have many friends. I think that I push people away because of trust issues. Kind of like you want it, but you are scared of it. But on the up side, I have learned to love myself. No one else seems to, so I learned to do that for myself, lol. And my kids and pets adore me, so that is nice, but they kind of need me to survive.
join a small group at church that interest you . Let God put it together for you .
Enjoy your single life whilst it lasts. Not saying I don't enjoy being with my wife but every moment should be cherished, single or not.