Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Can nightclub/party relationships that begin in a physical way lead to real relationships?

Is it good for a relationship to begin in a physical way? Is there a possibility that it could work long term?Can nightclub/party relationships that begin in a physical way lead to real relationships?
Yes, they can, I went out with a guy for two years and we met at a club. I can't say that a physical relationship is the best way to start a real, meaningful relationship, but physical attraction is what starts any relationship. Be honest and open about your expectations and you will be fine. It might not work out, but you at least gave it a chance.Can nightclub/party relationships that begin in a physical way lead to real relationships?
The magic word you said is ';work';. To turn a partying relationship into a long-term one you need to approach it differently, decisively, and with conviction that you want this thing to last and are willing to do whatever it takes in a serious and sane way. It may call for dramatic changes away from the party/club scene just to prove sincerity. And long term relations usually involve commitment to each other, love, and all the wonderful things a normal couple share.
I don't believe this matters. I have been married for 17 yrs to a lady I made love to on the first night we went out together.





Just don't expect it to happen, always consider if you have sex with someone you just met it is most likely going to be a casual thing, or a one night stand. What happens from there time will tell/
not sure nowadays....but 20-30 years ago it was typical....i know of several marriages still going strong today that began that way.

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